Comments on: Why Brains Hate Advice http://brillianceinc.com/why-brains-hate-advice/ Cultivating Leaders Mon, 16 Apr 2012 14:41:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.5 By: BrillianceInc http://brillianceinc.com/why-brains-hate-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-816 BrillianceInc Fri, 04 Mar 2011 17:30:51 +0000 http://brillianceinc.com/?p=548#comment-816 Joel, with 7 kids you qualify as a supreme expert (and saint) so I appreciate the comforting advice. By the way, you might notice that I posted a new version of the TAO of leadership. Due to fat fingers on my part, I created a new one instead of updating the old one. All that to say, I lost your wonderful comments to the original post. Just wanted you to know that I did not delete your comments! Be well and thanks for staying in conversation! http://brillianceinc.com/annoying-truths-take-two/ Joel, with 7 kids you qualify as a supreme expert (and saint) so I appreciate the comforting advice. By the way, you might notice that I posted a new version of the TAO of leadership. Due to fat fingers on my part, I created a new one instead of updating the old one. All that to say, I lost your wonderful comments to the original post. Just wanted you to know that I did not delete your comments! Be well and thanks for staying in conversation! http://brillianceinc.com/annoying-truths-take-two/

]]> By: Joel D Canfield http://brillianceinc.com/why-brains-hate-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-815 Joel D Canfield Fri, 04 Mar 2011 17:23:48 +0000 http://brillianceinc.com/?p=548#comment-815 Denise, if you're good with clients, helping motivate them to find their own answers, you'll be good when you need to do it more and more with your daughter. Just keep the communication going *now* so that it's not some new activity when she's 15. Nice to have the SCARF acronym to label something I've known was happening. I've been amazed at how being a father of 7 has made me a better business coach and mentor. Denise, if you’re good with clients, helping motivate them to find their own answers, you’ll be good when you need to do it more and more with your daughter. Just keep the communication going *now* so that it’s not some new activity when she’s 15.

Nice to have the SCARF acronym to label something I’ve known was happening. I’ve been amazed at how being a father of 7 has made me a better business coach and mentor.

]]> By: Battle Hymn of the Tiger Manager? | Brilliance Inc http://brillianceinc.com/why-brains-hate-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-811 Battle Hymn of the Tiger Manager? | Brilliance Inc Thu, 03 Mar 2011 00:29:49 +0000 http://brillianceinc.com/?p=548#comment-811 [...] Why the Brain Hates Advice: For a condensed version of Rock’s findings take a look at this article we wrote last year. [...] [...] Why the Brain Hates Advice: For a condensed version of Rock’s findings take a look at this article we wrote last year. [...]

]]> By: BrillianceInc http://brillianceinc.com/why-brains-hate-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-589 BrillianceInc Mon, 18 Oct 2010 15:46:46 +0000 http://brillianceinc.com/?p=548#comment-589 My daughter is only 3 so I hope I can take my own advice on advice when it's most needed. Thanks for your comment. I am so glad that you found use in it. My daughter is only 3 so I hope I can take my own advice on advice when it’s most needed. Thanks for your comment. I am so glad that you found use in it.

]]> By: Paula Kiger http://brillianceinc.com/why-brains-hate-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-588 Paula Kiger Mon, 18 Oct 2010 15:03:22 +0000 http://brillianceinc.com/?p=548#comment-588 Sorry - Denise not Denice! Sorry – Denise not Denice!

]]> By: Paula Kiger http://brillianceinc.com/why-brains-hate-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-587 Paula Kiger Mon, 18 Oct 2010 15:02:42 +0000 http://brillianceinc.com/?p=548#comment-587 Hi Denice, I really enjoyed this post. As a parent of a teenager, I am RIGHT THERE causing her brain's danger signals to light up constantly!! It is so challenging as a parent to set up the ground rules/foundation for a kid to build their own "home" -- we want them to learn from our hard won adult wisdom. Your blog has some good suggestions for being patient with how we talk with kids (and adults) in "problem scenarios". Hi Denice, I really enjoyed this post. As a parent of a teenager, I am RIGHT THERE causing her brain’s danger signals to light up constantly!! It is so challenging as a parent to set up the ground rules/foundation for a kid to build their own “home” — we want them to learn from our hard won adult wisdom. Your blog has some good suggestions for being patient with how we talk with kids (and adults) in “problem scenarios”.

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